For ages I had been talking of escape and adventure and taking a break from the world. Thing is, I wanted to escape everything and everyone, and this was the reason (in part at least) that I took so long to decide what to do and where to go... Because (and here comes the confusing bit) although I wanted to escape, I didn't really want to spend the entire 6 weeks on my own - I also wanted to have company at times too. I really didn't know what I wanted. Apart from everything of course!!!
And so, when I told my Mum I was going to the States, I asked if she wanted to come along too. And of course the answer was yes! There are many great things about this. Amongst them... I get along well with my Mum and we travel well together. We are interested in many of the same things... art, beauty, nature, people watching, relaxing, good food and fun. On top of that, she is like traveling with my own history book as she was bought up in the days when history was a strong part of a child's education and she remembers so much of it!
Also, she understands that I like my own space and we are not so precious that either of us will take it personally if one of us wants to do something different for a day or two.
Originally we agreed that out of 6 weeks away, we would spend 4 weeks together and 2 weeks apart (this I admit, was at my suggestion). I saw it as a good balance without either of us feeling too crowded and not being isolated either. I had plans to head to the Virgin Islands for a beach break and Mum was heading to Nova Scotia to soak up some Canadian goodness.
I was both excited (for me) and a little jealous (of her) at the same time. But the more I thought about it, the more I thought that Mum had the right idea... I reaslised that traveling to the Northern parts of the States, just to escape it for two weeks by traveling South for 7+ hours, was just a little bit crazy. I had come all that way, why not make the most of the area while there?
And so, I changed my plans. We have now decided that we will probably hang out together for most of the time... mostly because we want to do most of the same things anyway and it will be more fun with company. And if we decide to go our own way for a day or two at any stage, that's cool too.
Seems finding a rich Texan millionaire (and potential husband) is probably not likely to happen while hanging out with my Mum, and I won't be skinny dipping in the Carribean any time soon, and I'm pretty sure I can say we will not be bungy jumping, paragliding or climbing any glaciers, but that's ok. Because even if I miss out on these few things, we are going to have a great time together regardless.
Just ten sleeps to go!
5 comments:
Travelling with someone is also a bit better for the buget as accomodation costs can be shared, and taxis etc. And if you get on well together, and have similar travelling styles it will be a great way to share the travelling experience.
I'm feeling a little jealous but also excited for you at the same time as you tell all about your plans and packing.
Gosh my feet are getting itchy as I read!
Your mum may 'bump' into the millionaire for you!
It's just sounding better and better!!! So soon too! Have an absolute ball!
Sounds like a great plan. I think it'll be easy to find some moments alone, even when your traveling together. So exciting!
sounds great. It is so wonderful to read about other people who actually really like their mum! we are so lucky. mum's are so amazing and they aren't around forever so it is great to make the most of every opportunity. enjoy!
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